MANIFESTING and THE LAW OF ATTRACTION

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“No, I Did Not Want This. I’m Not Guilty.”
“Don’t Tell Me I’m Responsible For This”

When I first heard the term Law of Attraction and people began telling me about it, I was irritated. I thought “No way is that always true. A child who is sexually molested in childhood did not attract that. My friends who married abusive men when younger did not attract that.” With steam building, I thought “That is just another guilt-trip to put that kind of teaching on them, making them feel guiltier than they already feel!” “They did NOT want to manifest that! B.S.!!”
It actually made me angry.

It took quite a while for me to truly understand the Law of Attraction and what makes it work. Now that it has been digested and understood, I have to admit that it’s true, and it’s a beautiful system. Now I believe “This is the physics of Life….It’s how things work.” So, did my earlier statements get clarified. Did my skeptical questions get answered. YES.

A very important key to understanding the Law of Attraction is recognizing and acknowledging that we all have sub-conscious programs that are often opposite of what we consciously desire. These programs running in the background are often inherited, or, setup in childhood. They are not there because we really want that. But, understand this, those programs are sending out energy signals - signals that attract.

For example, a sub-conscious program of abuse may have been passed on in the family line genetically, so to speak. If the child’s parent was abused as a child, along with a grandparent involving a third generation pattern, that child may unknowingly be attracting a predator. Does that mean it is the child’s fault? OF COURSE NOT!!! Does that make the child guilty of anything? NO!! I’ve been in that situation. A child is innocent. But, what it does do is set up a negative Law of Attraction, which if given the right circumstances may occur. The same disastrous magnet is working in the lives of abused spouses, or partners.

In my family, the women often chose very poor mates. This led to divorces, abuses, adultery, abandonment, and failed relationships. When I finally realized that I had big signs (figuratively speaking) in the unseen realm that said something like “Doormat, Stop In Here”, or, a sign that read “I just Want To Be Loved and I Don’t Care How”, I got rid of the signs. A wonderful minister came briefly into my life, synchronistically, who helped people deal with generational issues. With some powerful prayers, and conscious awareness of patterns, I was able to get FREE of this failure pattern. Shortly thereafter, this clearing and cleaning process led to meeting my soul mate, my wonderful best friend, and husband.

It is not a matter of placing blame or guilt on anyone. It just simply is what it is. No blame, no guilt ~ just gentle responsibility for my own life and how I want it to be now. I can choose something better. I can choose to stop that issue (whatever it is) right here, right now. I am FREE. I no longer have the victim mentality: where life just happens, and there’s nothing you can do about it.